Experiencing an openness, confidence, and playfulness towards sexuality I never had access to before
|I was so nervous before I started working with Kait. I couldn’t imagine what it would be like to open up to a complete stranger about sexuality which for me was an embarrassing topic filled with shame I tiptoed around. Kait immediately put me at ease with her open, non-judgmental, and grounded presence. It was such a relief to know that almost everyone has issues in this area. She has “seen it all” and helped so many people. Kait has an extraordinary combination of integrity and compassion, which helped me feel safe and trusting right away. Her warmth and friendliness throughout our sessions as well as her deeply respectful and sensitive approach has helped me experience an openness, confidence, and playfulness towards sexuality I never had access to before. I can’t recommend her highly enough and I trust her with my dearest friends.|
Experiencing real intimacy with a woman for the first time in almost 30 years
I met Kait after years of having given up on experiencing myself as a sexual person. I pretty much figured that past trauma, unsatisfying relationships and feeling scared and avoidant about sex and being sexual were all that was left for me. I was hesitant at first to work with her and the outlines of our work were unfamiliar, something that both increased my anxiety and fueled a sense of hopelessness about trying a different kind of work. The process of learning how to communicate more honestly and directly was incredibly exciting and moving. With Kait, I learned more about accepting myself and approaching what I might need—not only about sexual connection, but about connecting with anyone at all—than I’ve probably learned in any adult relationship. It does not mean that I lost all my fear or everything has worked out happily ever after. It does mean that Kait’s combination of lovingkindness, skill and wisdom in helping me to recover parts of my life and vitality that have been lost or deeply buried was profoundly transformative for me. I directly credit her work with me in allowing me to experience real intimacy with a woman for the first time in almost 30 years. Perhaps more important I was able to learn much more about how to experience and articulate my own feelings, bodily states, wishes and desires. Working with Kait was like going to a great school to learn how to be a better human, much more rooted in the truth.
Kait deftly holds space for very complex feelings and emotions
Kait is that rare healer who offers such an outpouring of love that one’s own heart opens in response. Her very presence is calm and profoundly loving, and she holds a strong, protected, sacred healing space. During our sessions, I felt bathed in her steady, delighted energy. She approaches the work with curiosity, levity, joy, and groundedness. Kait deftly holds space for very complex feelings and emotions; she is somehow profoundly gentle and lovingly fierce at the same time. She has helped me to look deeply at my blocks to intimacy, and to slowly but surely flower open to be able to accept love in ways that were, previously, terrifying to me. Her wisdom and love helped me to to create a foundation of inner safety inside myself that has allowed me to slowly unfurl into deeper relations with the men in my life.